Whoa, SO BEHIND!
I am 20 weeks today. We did the anatomy scan on Wednesday and everything still looks great. Both my midwife and the ultrasound said said that Jingle looks happy and healthy. There was much wiggling and squirming around, but they got all the measurements they needed and were able to look at the heart, the brain and the kidneys in every view they needed.
We were able to skype with the IPs during the ultrasound so that they were able to see. She even switched to 4D for a little while so they could see everything in more “real” detail. She printed out some pictures and everyone went home smiling.
I have gained 6 pounds so far (not bad for 5 months) and I am starting to wear maternity clothes. I guess that was inevitable.
Other good news, the blood panel on Jingle came back TOTALLY normal for the 3 big genetic issues they can screen for: Down’s Syndrome, Spina Bifeda, and Trisomy 18. All good news for the health and well being of my womb mate.
On occasion, I can feel Jingle thumping around in there. It’s VERY different from feeling your own children move. Oftentimes, people ask me “Won’t it be hard when the baby is born?” Now, I cannot tell you from experience, but I can tell you just from my feelings now, that it absolutely won’t be. When I felt my own children move there was a sense of “awe and wonder.” I felt like I was bonding with them and they were communicating with me in a wondrous way. When Jingle gives me a thump or a bump, I just kind of say, “What’s up kid” and keep going about my day. I don’t lie in bed with my hand on my belly waiting to feel a kick, I just drift off to sleep! It’s SO different. Even during the ultrasound things were different. During my own children’s ultrasounds, I was GLUED to the screen, taking in every movement, every measurement. During this ultrasound, I watched my IP’s faces as THEY were glued to the screen. It’s just a very different experience.
Our IPs did the sweetest thing, to celebrate 20 weeks, the half way mark, they are sending us and the kids out to dinner “on them.” It was such an unexpected and sweet gesture! Now comes the hard part, finding time in our schedule to actually GO out!